Sorry, I would have updated this a while ago had I know I actually had people following it; and had life been a little calmer.
The day after I posted about our problem we finally talked things out. He admitted he was a little too into his silly computer game and I confessed that my doubts and insecurities had taken hold of me. We are better now, and he has not pushed me away anymore since then. Then life got really crazy. . .
He ended his overnight work schedule the following week. On his last overnight shift he came home and told me about a possible promotion they were offering him. The promotion was great, however the hours sucked really bad so I did not want him to take the promotion. I was not about to tell him not to take it though. Instead I voiced my honest opinion about the two possible positions and told him to decide what he wanted to do. Later that day while he was napping I found out from his coworker that he had taken the promotion. Needless to say I was fuming. He could have at least been a man and told me he was taking it, I thought to myself. When I asked him about it he told me no he had not accepted it, he called work and found out that they just gave it to him regardless. I was still mad that he had to take the position because it really messed with our life together. After a few days he spoke to the assistant manager and informed him that he would be looking for another job because this one was not going to work for us. Apparently the managers like him so much that they decided to start the paperwork to promote him to assistant manager of the store! He came home and we talked about that, I told him I could live with this but there had to be a time frame we were working towards otherwise they might just string him along to keep him working there. Together we decided that they have until the end of Jan to get the paperwork completed and submitted for him to become the assistant manager. Yay! That makes me a lot happier. Now there is at least a light at the end of the tunnel.
Other than that I had some out of town visitors for a week. They just left and now I feel like I can get my life back on track. Life was crazy with all the visitors here. Do not get me wrong, I loved having them here. But trying to entertain and feed an extra three people was just getting to be too much for me. I like my quiet life. My contained life.
On a happier note, something good came from all the rejection he was throwing at me. I went out and purchased Wii Fit a few days ago. Man I did not think you could get so sore from a simple video game!! Wow!! I am working out with the Wii Fit for approximately 2 hours everyday now, today I can barely move lol. But I am determined to make it impossible for him to reject me again.
Well that is about it in a nut-shell. I will post again soon. Lately I have been considering writing more for my first entry on here, that little story thing, I want to see if I can make it into I don't know, something. I have not been able to stop thinking about it since I wrote it so I think that means I need to expand on it. Whatever I add to it will be posted on here. Have fun! Enjoy the warm weather while it lasts!!
The day after I posted about our problem we finally talked things out. He admitted he was a little too into his silly computer game and I confessed that my doubts and insecurities had taken hold of me. We are better now, and he has not pushed me away anymore since then. Then life got really crazy. . .
He ended his overnight work schedule the following week. On his last overnight shift he came home and told me about a possible promotion they were offering him. The promotion was great, however the hours sucked really bad so I did not want him to take the promotion. I was not about to tell him not to take it though. Instead I voiced my honest opinion about the two possible positions and told him to decide what he wanted to do. Later that day while he was napping I found out from his coworker that he had taken the promotion. Needless to say I was fuming. He could have at least been a man and told me he was taking it, I thought to myself. When I asked him about it he told me no he had not accepted it, he called work and found out that they just gave it to him regardless. I was still mad that he had to take the position because it really messed with our life together. After a few days he spoke to the assistant manager and informed him that he would be looking for another job because this one was not going to work for us. Apparently the managers like him so much that they decided to start the paperwork to promote him to assistant manager of the store! He came home and we talked about that, I told him I could live with this but there had to be a time frame we were working towards otherwise they might just string him along to keep him working there. Together we decided that they have until the end of Jan to get the paperwork completed and submitted for him to become the assistant manager. Yay! That makes me a lot happier. Now there is at least a light at the end of the tunnel.
Other than that I had some out of town visitors for a week. They just left and now I feel like I can get my life back on track. Life was crazy with all the visitors here. Do not get me wrong, I loved having them here. But trying to entertain and feed an extra three people was just getting to be too much for me. I like my quiet life. My contained life.
On a happier note, something good came from all the rejection he was throwing at me. I went out and purchased Wii Fit a few days ago. Man I did not think you could get so sore from a simple video game!! Wow!! I am working out with the Wii Fit for approximately 2 hours everyday now, today I can barely move lol. But I am determined to make it impossible for him to reject me again.
Well that is about it in a nut-shell. I will post again soon. Lately I have been considering writing more for my first entry on here, that little story thing, I want to see if I can make it into I don't know, something. I have not been able to stop thinking about it since I wrote it so I think that means I need to expand on it. Whatever I add to it will be posted on here. Have fun! Enjoy the warm weather while it lasts!!
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