Circles

Hmm my head hurts now. Spent a long time talking to, umm I'll call him Willy, cuz he's sweet like candy. =p Anyway, spent a long time talking to Willy tonight. Boy he talks me in circles! I can't talk to him and carry on other convos at the same time. At least not completely. In any event, it was nice to talk. He's really sweet, albeit a little devious. (Yes, you Willy!)

It helped to ease my irritated mood he put me in though. He decided once again the stupid game was more important. Someday I'll learn. I just don't understand, how can he spend so much time researching and committing to the game when he won't even do half as much for me. Yea, after being married for so long things become habit. If he'd just take a moment and really listen to me, try to understand. . .

One of my better friends asked if maybe he was trying to find some common ground - or maybe she was asking me if I could find some common ground? Whatever. I just know when it comes down to it, if your spouse is barely talking to you it's time you found that common ground. And you better hope you find it pretty quickly. When you don't talk, what else is there? And do one-sided convo's really count as "talking"? What about talking about the inconsequential "crap"? Does that count?

Sorry this is garbled. I'm still going in circles, probably triangles myself now.